How to become both happy and successful by Jitu Das philosophy

 You can be both happy and successful if you are enjoying
 what you are doing. Money is very essential, but that doesn't mean you will just do any boring work. First find the work that calls you to do it, I mean if the work itself doesn't attract you, why would you go to do it, even if you do it for money, you would always want escape from the work. I see most people want to go for vacation once a year to ease their mind, wtf ! Most people do jobs for money, and they only survive, they never get to live. But that is not the truth, they have 24 hours each day. Where 8 hour is involved in work, 7 hour is for sleep, and other 9 hours for themselves, for family and friends. But, most people watch television for hours everyday.The people who watch films, serials want to escape from reality, they love to think their life is gonna be like one of those characters of films and serials. I am not saying that we don't need escapement, infact the need of escapement is incresing everyday. The number of drugs addicts are also increaing as a worst escapement. The problem with every education system is that its lacking the education of morality. Why an educated or an degree holder do drugs, the reason is need of escapement. 
Why we need escapement ? Is escapement is bad ?
What kind of escapement should I use ?
Paintaing, drawing, writing, reading, and our every work is a gateway to escapement. We need to escape because when we don't work our thoughts arise and makes us anxious to do something, if you want to experience what I am saying, just sit down without doing anything, (I am not talking about meditating. ) 

Sleeping is the real meditation, isn't it just amazing, you are all tired by the day's work, after dinner you go to sleep and wake up morning with freshness and new energy. Its like getting charged all night. Many people would not sleep well tonight and get sleepy tomorrow. From my own experience and study about sleeping I got to know that sleeping is as important as we need to eat food, to excrete normally and to bath; the shelter and cloth comes later. ) when you don't work or don't have any work or hobby, you end up watching T.V , surfing net or going out with a ride or talking with someone. What else you do ? Is there any better things to do,
Well there is, you can read a great book, you can watch a great films rather than those numerous t.v. shows. If you love  adventure you can go out and travel, you can do photography, you can go learn music, you can also learn other language. You can make a garden, gardening is one of the best hobby or escapement. You can paint, draw. You can sing and dance. Just because you are a adult that doesn't mean you have to control your emotions. Without our emotions we are a robot. I think shame , confusion , doubt each of this emotions are an another form FEAR. Jealousy, envy, comparison are formed in us when there is absence of self confidence.

In this age of modern marvels, even though our physical works are decreasing but our mind work has increased, if not then why everyone is so stressed out.The people who work in office has to work all day in the computer,which causes poor eyesight, obesity,fatigue, heart disease, anxiety and many more problems .The students get 3 month to study for a 6 month's course.To complete a course like that the colleges gives notes like vomitting, some departments raise their hands and try to blame to students for not being regular, such departments are the enemy of education system. The semester system has caused the students to spend all day in college only to get notes of the half course. In these situation every student need escapement or a hobby. After spending the day at college writing notes, gardening seems just impossible, may be that everybody just either surf net or watch t.v. Some fools get drugs offered to them and becomes addicted and creates unbearable extra tensions in home. Never try drugs, once you try, your brain will soon demand one more try, its just like sex addiction, once you have sex , your brain wants more. When you take drugs or have sex, the number of connection between neuron cell increases in your brain and you feel good , but these good feelings are momentary. Drug addiction is like a never ending hunger, most drug addicts dies of over-dose. 

So, what I want to say that why waste the whole life for a pleasure that last like for a minute. Since our mind work is incereasing day by day, the need of escapement is also increasing. So, if we must need escapement, then it should be creative, everythhng around your room or in the man-made environment, is a creative work by somebody from somewhere in the world.

 There is a great saying - " our purpose is not to live forever, but to do something that will". So find what kind of inborn personality you have and find the kind of work that match your kind. If you can find the work that calls you to do it, you will never need escapement anymore.Ask any worker who work passionately, what is their escapement ?The music related workers would say that music is their life, ask anyone who is doing what they love to do.Success is when a person can spend his lifetime the way he want to. Success is not only about money, capital or property, you can achieve success if you have attained balance in your life style.A balanced person means who is living in harmony working what he loves, sharing the moments with his family and friends. A truly successful man means who help  or inspire others to become successful.

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Beautiful films that you must watch

 Note : These films are very inspiring. These films have a spark that makes you happy and you could learn so much from these films...

1. The Bucket List ,inspires you to live like you are dying, in this way you can do all things you dream about doing. 

2. 'The Shashank redemption, inspires you to get busy living.

3. The adventures of Tintin,inspires you to dare to search for the truth.


4 '' Big Fish '' inspires you search for the big and best  you want in life

5.Midnight in  pairs, inspire  you to live the life you are  in love with. This film inspire you fall in love with someone  that has same kind of hobby and personality that you have

     6. '' Hidalgo''  inspires  you to keep moving to your goal  no matter how long is the journey, this film also inspire you love and care about the animals.

 7. " The fellowship of the ring,Lord of the ring" takes us to an entire different world, which is just thrilling. This film inspires us to live together with friends in harmony. This film strongly inspires the fellowship of human kind.

8 " The return of the king, Lord of the ring " inspires us to hope. This film inspire us to fight with evil and live in peace afterwards.

9. Yes man is one of the most inspiring film. It inspires you to be positive in life, to say yes to things you want to do ,but you fear to fail.

10. Bruce Almighty is really a great a family must watch.


11. Leap year is a very beautiful film about life. Its a refreshing film.What I love about the film is that its full of natural landscapes of Ireland. Its an romantic comedy,surely you will enjoy, do not listen to the rotten tomatoes. What I think that the message of the film is that life should be simple and full of life not only showy stuffs. I loved the beautiful Dingle peninsula. I got astonished seeing the ake superstitions about the cat. The soundtrack list of the film is just great,it helps the scenes understand clearly.


12.  50-50 is a beautiful film. One thing that makes this so amazing,that is its soundtracks, The songs perfectly match the scenes.I enjoyed this film more than 500 days of summer. This film taught me that there is always be some people when you are going through bad time. The soundtrack list of this films is just amazing,you will get into the film.

13.In the beginning of the film 500 days of summer, it tells clearly that its not a love story, its a story of a boy meets  a girl, The film tells you, not to have a belief someone is meant for you. There are no miracles,there is no fate, there is nothing is meant to be. Coincidence all that is, its about  timing that is working everywhere in earth and in the universe. There is no soul mate, there is only person of that have same likes and dislikes. The horoscope is a fraud to fool people in need of something like job,career,love etc. I think that if you want to find the girl of your dream, you just have to be observant a little bit, you will find the girl of your dream,where your interest lies. For example, if you love books, you will meet her in the bookstores or somewhere related this place. You will find  the girl that will love you in the places where you love going.

14.The descendants is a academy award nominated film for 4 categories in 2011 and for me the best film about life in 2011. The descendants is very successful in portraying a messed up  family in Hawaii,where the mother got accident in a boat, and she is about to die,where elder daughter  is addicted to drugs, and a 10 year old scotty.Where the father is trying to maintain the family. 
    What I loved about the film was watching the beauty of Hawaii. In the whole film,there was a  breeze was flowing and guitar tunes Jeff Peterson and Hawaiian songs.

15.. Little Manhattan is a very beautiful has also one of the greatest soundtrack that match the scenes of the film. I think the message was to be honest and open with each other in relationships. Some time not talking with each other  rots a relationship.Talking is very important. I wrote about that in my most famous post my idea of a happy family Talking is one of the most important thing in a relationship,if you do not talk with your family just for an day even if you are in the same home,its effects the relationship,it does not matter how slightly. Little Manhattan is full of beautiful soundtracks.

15. Flashback of a fool is also a film about life.All these film I listed are films that captured the real life in picture. Daniel Craig portrays an actor Joe Scot: who was successful,but later,his life became messy. May be it was because of his suppressed memories of childhood.Where something happened with him,later he goes to to this home, and reconcile with his family.In the end  Joe Scot realize and thinks," When I was a child I used to think that being brave meant that you had to take ownership. That to have a dream and to move forward in life you needed courage. But the only thing you need courage for is for standing still."

16. American beauty is one of the great film is one of the greatest film that gives the messages that happiness lies in the love. Without love you can not find happiness  in the stuff or in the money.

17.Liar Liar inspires you tell only truth, telling truth you can make your life more beautiful,because truth is itself beautiful. 

18." Little miss sunshine  "inspires us to never stop trying. It inspires us to be who we are already.

19. Finding neverland, is a  amazing  film about the life writer of Peter -pan,the soundtrack is very beautiful and also the cinematography.

20. Robinson Crusoe

21.Into the wild


  •  All these films are tells you that we must love our families,friends and neighbor. There is nothing that is perfect or could be perfect. So,we must never expect for utopia,paradise or a perfect society. 
  • At day,we need warm and light of sun and at night we dark to rest. I believe that,in life we need both happiness and sadness. What we call a person ,who is always happy,singing,laughing,we call them mad. 
  • Because, we need not laugh all day,or party all night.We need to be what the environment recommend. At daytime,we need to work,at night, we should sleep.There is no need to party all night,drink alcohol and get hangover.
  •  Why do something,that you are gonna regret doing in the future.Do something that your future thanks you for. So, whenever you get time watch these beautiful films.

What do you need in life by Jitu Das

 Do you know how you get bored ?
You get bored, when you don't have any new idea to think about.
Whenever you hear a new idea, see a new idea , think a new idea you feel so much energy within.
The thing about idea is that you must know who you are first to know what kind of idea gives you energy. You can always find who you are, its just like buying your right sized shoe, to find the right shoe, you must put on other shoes too. So don't you settle on anything. 
 To make life more worth living, you should be -
1. Lover -You can be lover of anything. But you must love something. We are all lover of music, films, art, adventure, thrill ...
2. Curious- You must be curious to learn more. Learning is surely not the main purpose of life .
3. Friendly - we human are social loving animal. We can't live without connecting ourselves with society. Everybody is connected with society or with an another human being or any life or organism through direct or indirect contact.
4.Watch films -  When we are watching a film we are connecting to ourselves in a story in which we can see as we are a invisible detective learning how they are living( I wrote living a film always in present continuous , except the flash backs). I love films like more than anything !.
I love to know people around the world. Thats why I watch films of every langugae if there is subtitles available. My friend, watch films to know more about people and the world. You should watch 50 great films before you die  
5. Listen to music- Listen music to feel the enthusiastic, sadness. Music has the ability to induce emotions in you. Music can make you feel romantic, music can make you feel energetic, music can calm your mind, music can make you smart, music can make you passionate. Music is one of the greatest invention and now is the greatest of all time, you can listen to any music from anycountry, genre, singer, because you have a great power called internet.
The music of Amelie just creates harmony within me. Some music creates happiness, love, enthuaism. So I realized that happiness, love, sadness every emotion is within us, the emotions are within our brain, released by the hypothalamus of our brain, serotonin, dopamine.,Epinephrine. But even though in a complew way everything works in our body, but in a larger sense we must follow what we love. Here its get complicated in case of following. I mean you can love so many thing, but at one point you have to leave everything behind and follow one love. So the problem arise and you feel like you need to discussed with someone, someone who is interested in you, someone who loves you.
You may be  doing anything in your life, but remember You can always do 3 great things your life -
1. Live life fully
2. Help others live life fully
3. Be curious and open minded.
I wanna do it, do you ?


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