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How a happy family works by JItu Das








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Home is the most beautiful place in the world where we live with our family. There is no place like home,but one question asking myself is that what is home ?I don't know so much , I am writing this post BECAUSE I write about things I love. I love my home and my family and relatives who come to my home. Home is beautiful, peaceful and the most intimate place on earth. For me,
1.Home is there where people you love or the people who care and love you you lives.
2.Home is where we do our breakfast, our lunch.our dinner with our family and sometime with our relatives, friends and other people.
3.home is where we live with the people we love and care.
           In a home  people who lives are   together called as  Family .  Family is a group of  people regardless of the age , gender, personality,look,behavior, who either live together in one home or live separately in other home.  An ideal  family is consist of generally, mother ,father, sons and daughters.
4. Home is a place for human where they live just like  a nest is for a bird,burrow for meerkets,  groundhog , a pond, river, or sea are home for fishes, trees are home for monkeys, grasslands are home for deer, just like rain -forests only occupy only 3% of the world, rain-forests are home for the half of the world's species. And amphibians can live in both water and ground in their life.
                 In a family generally the people are .(1) Mom, dad, son, daughter, (2) Mom, dad, son ( one or more), (3) Mom,dad, son, daughter, uncle, aunt, grandfather, granny, (4) Mom,son, daughter, (5) Mom, son, (6) mom, daughter, (7) father son , daughter, ( 8) father ,son,( 9) father , daughter etc etc just many many combinations are found in different family.
                   The most important thing that makes a family real family is the (1) care for each other,(2) love for each other, (3) support, (4) protection or security (5) companion, ( 6) help( with money money , with work)
Family can be successful if there is care, love, respect and good attitude for each other. Members of the family should listen to each other's problems.
  
 Here are some of the most essential things for a family : 

(1) Care, love, respect and good attitude to each other.
(2) Listening to each other's problems, stories.
(3) Support, inspiration is  also one of the most needed thing every members of a family needs from each other. 
(4) Helping with money or helping solving problems
(5) Encouragement instead of demanding. For example,parents must not demand good grades from their children, because that would make children feel bad and it won't help at all, so  parents must encourage their children to get good grades if they can. Encouragement always works, I mean it gives good result. because encouragement is positive way of asking and demanding is always a negative way.
(6) When any member of the family get sick or depressed, rest of the family must take care of the patient,a family support will help recover the person fast because the person will feel the warmth of the care and love in heart which will care good feelings.
(7) Spending time with family. Holidays, weekends are the best way to spend time.
(8) Having the breakfast,lunch and dinner together, though its not possible for everyone but dinner must be done together if possible. Because if not possible, then you must be missing the good feelings that comes from eating with your whole family.
(9) Going to picnic, long drive, tours with family creates a great bond in a family and good time memories.
(10) Going to relatives home with whole family is one of the good feeling which bods family stronger.
(11) Playing games with your family has many benefits, first of all it creates a great joy in the family and it serves a good as good exercise which reduces the stress of both mind and body.
(12) sharing your thoughts and listening to others feeling is very important .
(13) Listen to older members with respect,Let the older members talk first, then younger should also given chance to state their view points. Older members of a family must not underestimate the younger ones.Everyone is unique in their own way, thus important for a discussion.
(14) Younger member of family is full of ideas especially the smaller ones, they can think beyond the older ones, because they have no restriction ,fear of any religious belief, limiting belief etc.The smaller ones are full of fun, imagination and full of confidence and activity. May be  sleeping  in the afternoon after having lunch is like a punishment  is most of the kids. I used to feel like that ,still many feel like that. Many mother don't let their kids play in the afternoon, because if their kids play , they will get tired and go to sleep early, which will  result no study. From a mother's point of view, that s right, studying is important for a kid, yet that kid needs to play, making new friends via playing,playing creates many friends, some  stay in your life, some leaves, but the memories always remain. I still remember the cricket plays, badminton plays, chess, kabadi, hide and seek, ludu etc. So, lets the kids play. Playing games is one of the great feeling.

 15. In every family, every member is talented in some field. For example, my dad ( deuta in Assamese) is good at managing the food supply, he never left the kitchen empty, but thats not his talent, he is far talented than just food supply. He is a  head-teacher, establisher of a school, where he is the head -master, he also started a social-circle in the name of my grandfather, he was also editor of a magazine called " Panka-Yug" means 'A bad time'.  He   is also a good speaker, thats why he is also a leader, because people understand a good speaker very well, thats why they listen, and people who have listeners are generally called a leader.Eveyone respect him. One thing I got amazed by my dad is that he knows about many real life stories. He knows many people's name. I like when he tells me about his childhood, and how he established a school., for me that was his big hit. I believe that he is satisfied with his career, I can tell it from his confidence. Success always increases confidence. A big success last life long. I am proud of my dad( deuta in assamese).


  
 My mom ( maa in Assamese & Hindi) is very good at directing. She takes care of everyone.She worries for everybody, just now she told me to sleep, cause its10.26 pm already .Well she is a nurse and doing this work for more than 25 years. 

 16. For a successful family health is very important.  Without good health nothing in life feels good. Thats why a good healthy diet must be followed. A good health increases the ability to work , think and all other activity in life. Good health is most wanted for a happy life. Cholesterol is the main reason for many disease such as high-pressure, diabetes, because Cholesterol in the vein and artery ,( through which blood circulates in our body) decreases the diameter of the vein and arteries which increase the speed of the blood passing via them
  Scientific study suggest us not to  take junk food and fast food because it effects health by causing High blood pressure, overweight, over-cholesterol etc. So for healthy family elder member must never bought junk food for them, because junk food causes addiction to it, because  heroine and cocaine is found in the junk food in a recent study



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Why you should have a hobby by Jitu Das


Live your life right now, do the things you love right now.Don't live in your dreams, live in reality. If you think deep down in your mind,what will you find that feels like real & live ?

 The only thing you have in your life is  "Life". The important thing in the whole universe is that right now you are alive. In the whole world only a few people appreciate that they are alive right now. I am alive and I do appreciate that.

My life is my god, it is whole source of energy for everything I did and am doing and will do.If you think a bit you will appreciate that you are alive.Well its not about being alive, its more,much more.Day by day its getting more than you can possibly imagine.Human intellect is growing every second.Technology is everywhere.Now-a-days kids are more smarter than we were.
         

 Don't ever think or say that you hate your life,you hate yourself, remember you never hate yourself because everybody love themselves, love their names.May be its your job that you don't like,maybe it your companions whom you don't like. I think everybody love the people who love them back but not everybody love back the people ,who love them.Its the truth.


When you love someone and that someone don't love you back, you start to hate that person, its true.Every life has its own reason.Everybody is important as much you & me. Because everyone is doing something and living.

This is how it the world works. Every work has its own value & importance.But when you want a job which is also your hobby.Some people watch  films , some listen music, some make chat, some go outside or play.some people make food, there is so may things that people love to do.A hobby is what you pay for or maybe not for doing something.Word is a place where good & bad things both happen.Everyday you meet people , some people make you feel good, and some make you feel bad, and you always think why did behave with me like that.But you know now that you shouldn't hang out or meet those people.


You must spend your time with the people those who love you, share their happiness with you and never make you feel bad.If someone even who is your friend make you feel bad isn't actually a friend at all.The most important fact about a true fiend is that they never ever make your fun or humiliate you.Just because some people doesn't like you doesn't mean you are a bad person. Just  believe  that there is always some true friends  waiting  for you.You gotta search for them.Its like You are in search page of  Google, you gotta search what you need. 


So I was talking about having a hobby, It can be anything you enjoy doing. I wouldn't ask you only What do you love to ? Because you love to do many thing and would love to do much more things. 

But my question for you is what do you do most of your time in a day or a week ?  What are the things you are doing and enjoying .For me I read books, watch cinemas and listen music friends,I love to chat with my dad and mom. I love to hang with my friends.I watch TV so much.May be more than anything I think in my white little brain. I can't stop thinking.But I would love to play guitar, violin, travel all around the world,marry someone who love as I am.

Take your time to think and know  about what are the things you are doing or what you did that you really enjoyed. More you know about what you are doing and what you are enjoying,more you discover your true self.


           We often have to do things that we don't love to do.Well its not fair to please yourself only. We must do things for others too even when you don't want to.I heard someone saying that bible says to do for others more than you do for yourself.I think to get the best by doing for someobody is not think about it all after you have help.

Everybody wants credit for their works, every creative worker wants to credit for what they have created, when critics give their credit, they love it, when critics don't give any credit, they suffer, But the great writer don't work for credit, they do that because they just love doing it, if they would have thought what will be review of their work they couldn't have done it so amazing.They do what they do for the satisfaction of doing...may be I am writing all these that why if you ask me why ? 



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Jitu Das

“Find the right frequency that resonates with your soul.”

Assamese writer. Observer of life. Capturing thoughts, stories, and reflections with a touch of soul.