Why failure feels so horrible ? by Jitu Das philosophy

 

    why failure feels so horrible ?

    Well I think that we are taught to feel bad, when we fail. Do you remember anyone saying congratulation to you whenever you failed. Failure reminds you of you past, childhood, where you were blamed, cursed, or made fun of whenever you failed. Failure tells you to experience all the nagging , bad memories. Failure is a bad thing, if you have failed in the last chance. But the question is last chance to achieve what ? Always remember, life gives you a chance everyday. So, do not worry about failure. Failure is actually a great opportunity to learn about our own mistakes. Always remember that there is no success without failure. Failure and success are not so different as people have taught you. No one can define your failure and success , no person, no media.Only you can  define your success and failure. If somebody tells you that you are wasting your life, do not feel bad, sad because they do not know who you are completely. Greatness lies within everyone, there is no doubt about that. But greatness does not matter if it remains only within and never for others in need. Failure and success. People talk about it, you talk about it. But what is failure ? Failure is different for different people and thus failure is not one thing. It is all about how you see it. Success is also same as failure, it is not a one thing for everyone. The meaning of success differs from people to people. So, when someone call you a failure, you must know that he  is calling you failure in his own perspective, but you should not project that same view in your mind too. Because you are different, you are unique just like everybody has their own uniqueness. You must trust the uniqueness inside out. You are different from others, you must know it by heart. Do not force yourself to be where others are, do not force yourself to do what others do.