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We are all imperfect people, our family, friends and we ourselves are not perfect people. But I think, you have to leave the imperfection of the people alone, and take the good part that lies in every beating heart of the world and live a great happy life together.

Life is dull without people, specially without a family. Families are not supposed to be perfect. But, nothing is perfect. So, you can not expect that the members of your family would behave in a perfect way. What is that you want from a family ? you do not want to have a family that does not have time, love, respect and care for you.

Here, if you think you are not loved truly by your family, do not blame them or stay separated. Always remember that you get back what you give. Well, if you think they should start to love you before you do, it is just your ego. Ego is a life ruining feeling or thinking.

What is ego ? Ego is simply thinking that you are perfect, nothing is perfect. So, if you are nothing then you are perfect ! Ego is thinking that you do not need anybody. Ego is believing that you are greater than others. Ego is thinking you are the best.

Well, we all think we are the best. In a way, every boy thinks he is the hero and every girl thinks she is a heroine. I used to think that I am a hero of a film matching my attitude with the heros of films that I admire.

It is a tough subject to talk & think about. Ego is a natural feeling or emotion just like hunger, feeling asleep. Everyone has ego,so the members of your family also have their own ego and they would love and hate you and still they would be your family.

Always remember you get it back what you give. When you blame your kids, your kids would be upset and won’t talk to you for a while. When I was a kid and I got blamed, I used to pretty upset and wouldn’t talk with my parents for a while and then I stay in my room and in dinner time, one of my father or mother comes to call me for dinner and I forget everything. This way things work.

Even you are mad at somebody, you have to let it go and if somebody is angry at you, you have to be sweet. If anyone in your family is mad at you, it means that you have done or said something conciously or unconsciously that hurt them. You should know that no one will be mad at you unless you hurt their feeling and believes.

No one is with same personality, we are not clones, even clones might acquire different personalitities if they live in different places or in a same place but in a different lifestyle and philosophy. So, for example, if you like science fiction, do not expect that your family is going to like sci fi. Well, they may or may not like sci fi. It depends on how they have spend their childhood, if they did not have any access to sci-fi till they are young, they would not like sci fi in adult life also.

So, know that your interests may not mean anything to the other members of your family, but that does not mean they are your enemy, not friends. So, what does friends mean ? I think that friends are simply those people who share same likeness and dislikness about enough things to create conversations about those. This defination is for the most friends you have. Only a few people are true friends.

True friends go beyond just that, they could even die for their friends. I believe everyone who stay close, help and inspire to do great things in life, they are true friends.

If you wondering if you have any true friends or not, well don’t worry, you have your parents as your true friends, they have brought you up and nurtured so patiently for 20 years and still they care and love unconditionally. They are your true friends, aren’t they ?

Never leave your parents alone even though you get a job and wife or husband, stay in touch, they never left you alone when you were a baby. So, when your parents do not give you what you want to buy, don’t be angry and don’t feel helpless. There will be always some good reasons behind that. Maybe they could not afford to buy you that. Maybe they think it is right thing to do in the long run.

Always remember, every parents try to do only good for their children. It is a natural fact, so do not doubt that. Sometime in taking  decision  in career, your parents might oppose you.

The question is what to do then ?
For example, you want to be a writer and your parents wants you to become an engineer. But you know in your heart, what you want to become and engineering is boring to you. Then you get in a situation where you even doubt yourself. But do not doubt yourself, do not get confused.

Always listen to your small inner voice that says that yes you can do great things that others do not dare to. Yes you can dream anything and achieve.To ensure your parents about your careers  you have to believe in yourself, in your dreams.

You can not expect  others  to believe if you do not believe in yourself. Sometime other’s opinions may become loud, but you can not give up hope, You have to hold the great hope and keep it alive.

The Meaning Of Life by Jitu Das

What happens to your human body everyday ?? by Jitu Das

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1. Why humans are also animals ??

1. In a day, you produce 2 litre saliva and 1.18 litre sweat in your body

2. In a day, you breath 23000 times , and you intake 120.3 cubic meter air in you lung

3. In a day, your eyes opens and closes 27,000 time normally

4. After crossing the age of 18, you are loosing 1000 neuron cell of your brain everyday, though it does not make much affect your memory.

5. In a day, your heart pupms 7,500 litre blood in your body.

6. In a day, your heart beat almost 1,03,689 times.

7. In a day, your brain can store more than 86 million small information.

8. Your body muscles are contracted and strecthcehed while doing work, 75 times a day.

9.The blodd in your body travels 27,00,0,00 km a day.

10. Your nail increases 0.0011684 cm everyday.

11. Your hair increases 0.435102 cm everyday.

10 FACTS ABOUT HUMAN LIFE BY JITU DAS

1.The amount of chatting or talking you will do in your life,would take almost 2.5 year if you talk continously. And if you write down everything you sday in your whole life,you can probably write 100 books each containing 400 pages.

2. In your whole life, you will eat almost 30000 kg food.

3. In your life,you shall open and close your hands 25 million times( 250 lac times).

4. In your life, your brain will recieve 10,00000000000000000000 small and big informations.

5. If you live for 7 years, you would sleep for 28 years and would work only 15 years.This facts are determined by studying most of the people on the world,so the results are on average.It might not be correct for you,but the results are ought to be near your results.

6. If you live for 70 years,then the you shall produce 5,11,10litre salive in normal.

7. If you live for 7 years, your heart will beat 250 crore times.

8. In your whole life, your heart will continously pump in total 15,0,000 litre blood.

9. If you live for the age of 7, you will breath 5,87,65000 times.

10. You are going to fall in love 10 time in life.

How to become both happy and successful by Jitu Das philosophy

You can be both happy and successful if you are enjoying

what you are doing. Money is very essential, but that doesn't mean you will just do any boring work. First find the work that calls you to do it, I mean if the work itself doesn't attract you, why would you go to do it, even if you do it for money, you would always want escape from the work. I see most people want to go for vacation once a year to ease their mind, wtf ! Most people do jobs for money, and they only survive, they never get to live. But that is not the truth, they have 24 hours each day. Where 8 hour is involved in work, 7 hour is for sleep, and other 9 hours for themselves, for family and friends. But, most people watch television for hours everyday.The people who watch films, serials want to escape from reality, they love to think their life is gonna be like one of those characters of films and serials. I am not saying that we don't need escapement, infact the need of escapement is incresing everyday. The number of drugs addicts are also increaing as a worst escapement. The problem with every education system is that its lacking the education of morality. Why an educated or an degree holder do drugs, the reason is need of escapement.

Why we need escapement ? Is escapement is bad ?

What kind of escapement should I use ?

Paintaing, drawing, writing, reading, and our every work is a gateway to escapement. We need to escape because when we don't work our thoughts arise and makes us anxious to do something, if you want to experience what I am saying, just sit down without doing anything, (I am not talking about meditating. )

Sleeping is the real meditation, isn't it just amazing, you are all tired by the day's work, after dinner you go to sleep and wake up morning with freshness and new energy. Its like getting charged all night. Many people would not sleep well tonight and get sleepy tomorrow. From my own experience and study about sleeping I got to know that sleeping is as important as we need to eat food, to excrete normally and to bath; the shelter and cloth comes later. ) when you don't work or don't have any work or hobby, you end up watching T.V , surfing net or going out with a ride or talking with someone. What else you do ? Is there any better things to do,

Well there is, you can read a great book, you can watch a great films rather than those numerous t.v. shows. If you love adventure you can go out and travel, you can do photography, you can go learn music, you can also learn other language. You can make a garden, gardening is one of the best hobby or escapement. You can paint, draw. You can sing and dance. Just because you are a adult that doesn't mean you have to control your emotions. Without our emotions we are a robot. I think shame , confusion , doubt each of this emotions are an another form FEAR. Jealousy, envy, comparison are formed in us when there is absence of self confidence.

In this age of modern marvels, even though our physical works are decreasing but our mind work has increased, if not then why everyone is so stressed out.The people who work in office has to work all day in the computer,which causes poor eyesight, obesity,fatigue, heart disease, anxiety and many more problems .The students get 3 month to study for a 6 month's course.To complete a course like that the colleges gives notes like vomitting, some departments raise their hands and try to blame to students for not being regular, such departments are the enemy of education system. The semester system has caused the students to spend all day in college only to get notes of the half course. In these situation every student need escapement or a hobby. After spending the day at college writing notes, gardening seems just impossible, may be that everybody just either surf net or watch t.v. Some fools get drugs offered to them and becomes addicted and creates unbearable extra tensions in home. Never try drugs, once you try, your brain will soon demand one more try, its just like sex addiction, once you have sex , your brain wants more. When you take drugs or have sex, the number of connection between neuron cell increases in your brain and you feel good , but these good feelings are momentary. Drug addiction is like a never ending hunger, most drug addicts dies of over-dose.

So, what I want to say that why waste the whole life for a pleasure that last like for a minute. Since our mind work is incereasing day by day, the need of escapement is also increasing. So, if we must need escapement, then it should be creative, everythhng around your room or in the man-made environment, is a creative work by somebody from somewhere in the world.

There is a great saying - " our purpose is not to live forever, but to do something that will". So find what kind of inborn personality you have and find the kind of work that match your kind. If you can find the work that calls you to do it, you will never need escapement anymore.Ask any worker who work passionately, what is their escapement ?The music related workers would say that music is their life, ask anyone who is doing what they love to do.Success is when a person can spend his lifetime the way he want to. Success is not only about money, capital or property, you can achieve success if you have attained balance in your life style.A balanced person means who is living in harmony working what he loves, sharing the moments with his family and friends. A truly successful man means who help or inspire others to become successful.

What do you need in life by Jitu Das

Do you know how you get bored ?
You get bored, when you don't have any new idea to think about.
Whenever you hear a new idea, see a new idea , think a new idea you feel so much energy within.
The thing about idea is that you must know who you are first to know what kind of idea gives you energy. You can always find who you are, its just like buying your right sized shoe, to find the right shoe, you must put on other shoes too. So don't you settle on anything.
To make life more worth living, you should be -
1. Lover -You can be lover of anything. But you must love something. We are all lover of music, films, art, adventure, thrill ...
2. Curious- You must be curious to learn more. Learning is surely not the main purpose of life .
3. Friendly - we human are social loving animal. We can't live without connecting ourselves with society. Everybody is connected with society or with an another human being or any life or organism through direct or indirect contact.
4.Watch films - When we are watching a film we are connecting to ourselves in a story in which we can see as we are a invisible detective learning how they are living( I wrote living a film always in present continuous , except the flash backs). I love films like more than anything !.
I love to know people around the world. Thats why I watch films of every langugae if there is subtitles available. My friend, watch films to know more about people and the world. You should watch 50 great films before you die
5. Listen to music- Listen music to feel the enthusiastic, sadness. Music has the ability to induce emotions in you. Music can make you feel romantic, music can make you feel energetic, music can calm your mind, music can make you smart, music can make you passionate. Music is one of the greatest invention and now is the greatest of all time, you can listen to any music from anycountry, genre, singer, because you have a great power called internet.
The music of Amelie just creates harmony within me. Some music creates happiness, love, enthuaism. So I realized that happiness, love, sadness every emotion is within us, the emotions are within our brain, released by the hypothalamus of our brain, serotonin, dopamine.,Epinephrine. But even though in a complew way everything works in our body, but in a larger sense we must follow what we love. Here its get complicated in case of following. I mean you can love so many thing, but at one point you have to leave everything behind and follow one love. So the problem arise and you feel like you need to discussed with someone, someone who is interested in you, someone who loves you.
You may be doing anything in your life, but remember You can always do 3 great things your life -
1. Live life fully
2. Help others live life fully
3. Be curious and open minded.
I wanna do it, do you ?

How to find the work you are born to do ? by Jitu Das

The work, you don't any reason to do, is the work you are born to do. If you start to ask for reasons why you are doing what you are doing, that doesn't only mean that you are a very curious person. I think that, when you love something, you don't question why you love ? Do you ? If you need reasons to do something, it is because you are not enjoying what you are doing. Ask, any great scientist,writers, singers, painter, filmmaker, actor, the question why they do what they do ? They all would say that, they can't live without doing their work, they say its their life. Such passion for a work, is what makes them great. My point is, do the work, you love. When you do the work, you enjoy every moment doing it. First know who you are, what kind of thinker you are.Believe in your inborn talent. Find the work, you can do all day without being bored,tired and exhausted. Your work could be anything that you are good at. Every work is a great but may not be famous. You need to believe in something. You have to live a life of passion. Passion is nothing but the strong desire to do something that excites your body ,mind and soul.I am writing this, because writing to inspire you is my passion. Your inner-world becomes stable,peaceful when you do the work , that distracts you most. When you start do "the work," leaving other work( The work that seeks your attention while you are doing other work.) then you will never get distracted anymore, no nagging thoughts will come. To know what is the work, you are born for, you just have to find the work, by doing which work,your mind go blank. When I write, my mind get so concentrated that I don't think about other things at all. I find the work peaceful. So, my friend , your job is to find the work, by doing which, you find inner peace, find the work by doing which your mind do not get distracted, find the work, which is like meditation for you. Find the work,that when you do that only one thing that exist is your work, and the whole world disappears. Such concentration is meditation. My dear, friend, find the work,that you are born to do,not what others tell you. If you notice very well, you will find that, the people you are related to are suggesting you to do, whats trending,not the work you are born to do. My friend, please don't listen to them, find the work, your life will be amazing when you do the work, you will be free as birds, light, peaceful as lake
You and I always know in our heart, what we want in life. But, we get worried, if we don't get what we really really want. The remedy is to believe in your talent,your inborn talent. You will get what you want, just follow what you love. Always believe that you are good at something. Your work is to find out what you are good at not what other's are good at. It is always about you,find who you want to be in your life...

How to keep the passion of life alive by Jitu Das

If you have a interest in something, you will know it all the time. Only thing you need to do is keep your interest in that something, don't let die. Your interest is the inspiration, hope and one of the great reason you love your life. You

keep it, don't lose it. If you are not getting what interest I am talking about. I AM TALKING that Your inspiration could be anything or anyone you love. Your love for someone, your love for something is the inspiration that literally keeps you alive ! Your inspiration is the reason you wake up, do breakfast, go to bathroom and you do all the things that you do everyday. Its something isn't it that keeps you running, don't get the wrong idea, it just food, its all about the energy comes from what you love. So what I want to say is that don't be afraid to fall in love, don't be afraid to fail in love. Do what you love, love whom you like. Its what you should do to stay happy.

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